Poodler Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Popped up in a few threads now, this debate. Obviously, I don't have kids. I'm incredibly selfish and like to please myself. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Though it irks people around me who chose to have kids and spend their time telling me to 'grow up' etc. Those with kids, do you regret it? do you advise it? When/ why? Is it really 'the most amazing experience in the world' etc? Link to comment
The Boofon Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 They are ace. All this pish about folk having them because they are told they need to or it’s the right thing to do is just that. Complete pish. Have them if you can have them but only if you want them. 1 Link to comment
Studebaker-90 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Popped up in a few threads now, this debate. Obviously, I don't have kids. I'm incredibly selfish and like to please myself. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Though it irks people around me who chose to have kids and spend their time telling me to 'grow up' etc. Those with kids, do you regret it? do you advise it? When/ why? Is it really 'the most amazing experience in the world' etc?SS Link to comment
strachanmcgheegoal Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 And don’t feel guilty if you don’t. Link to comment
Reed Till Deed Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Ive got one child , still live alone and please masel yet see ma bairn all time shes got one and another on the way cuz shes 27.....lang as ye look after em canna see an issue, its about looking after them and providing and if yer like me pleasin yersel ana.....best oh baith worlds, if thats what ye prefer canna see a prob.....knock yersel oot Link to comment
Poodler Posted May 24, 2019 Author Share Posted May 24, 2019 SSAye told him to never speak to me again this week after another sanctimonious outburst 1 Link to comment
YorkDon Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 They change your life for the better in my opinion and give you a purpose-ie to raise the next generation of Dandies.The start is tough though,but when their wee personalities start showing it’s great.It’s nae all plain sailing like and there are some tough times,parenting lessons to learn etc,but I wouldn’t change having my daughter-even though she can be a nightmare at times. Link to comment
1903Fitba Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 No. Will one day as long as my swimmers swim. Always thought I’d want them around 30 but the closer I get the more I think otherwise. Link to comment
Studebaker-90 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Every chance I do have one somewhere with the amount of unprotected sex back in the day. Anyone else think they have a kid they don’t know about? Must be quite likely. Link to comment
Studebaker-90 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Aye told him to never speak to me again this week after another sanctimonious outburstExplains the other day then. Shame. Link to comment
Bad_Mobby Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 No Want a stressless life - no bills, no kids getting ill/dying, no responsibilities Free as a bloody bird Link to comment
Poodler Posted May 24, 2019 Author Share Posted May 24, 2019 Every chance I do have one somewhere with the amount of unprotected sex back in the day. Anyone else think they have a kid they don’t know about? Must be quite likely.Left one in an orange bin recently Link to comment
manboobs109 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Not if you don't want to. It's really not as bad as people make out though. Link to comment
Redforever86 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 I’d shag the 50+ yank bird who just walked past me Link to comment
Bad_Mobby Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 The world is only going to get worse, so bringing them in nowadays is just setting the poor bastards up for a fall Link to comment
Zeus Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 1 and 1 on the way. Terrific. Keeps me on my toes Do drive me absolutely mental at times but wouldn't have it any other way 2 is my limit though. May get the snip Link to comment
For Fecks Sake Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Have 2 and its the toughest but best thing we have done. First few years were fucking awful but now they are into football, cycling, swimming and hold a proper conversation it's decent. Each stage of development brings its own rewards and new troubles but on the whole I love the little buggers. Link to comment
Bluto10 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Go for it Poodz you won’t regret it Link to comment
Arabian Knight Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 u regretted it cos ye goat telt tae cut yer drinkin back Link to comment
Reed or deed Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Haein yer ane bairns is ace.Get them to go to the shop and stuff. Link to comment
dazzy_deff Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Got one and planning another. Kids are ace. They drive you nuts at times but no better feeling than when they come up to you randomly, hug you and say "love you daddy". Wouldn't change it for anything. Pain in the ass playing hide and seek for 2 hours like. Link to comment
Site Sponsor Dom Sullivan Posted May 24, 2019 Site Sponsor Share Posted May 24, 2019 Got one and planning another. Kids are ace. They drive you nuts at times but no better feeling than when they come up to you randomly, hug you and say "love you daddy".Wouldn't change it for anything. Pain in the ass playing hide and seek for 2 hours like.I think when you’re asked to find a “hidey hole” I don’t think that’s what they mean double D Link to comment
Bad_Mobby Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Any of you pannys smack your kids? Link to comment
Bluto10 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Got one and planning another. Kids are ace. They drive you nuts at times but no better feeling than when they come up to you randomly, hug you and say "love you daddy".Wouldn't change it for anything. Pain in the ass playing hide and seek for 2 hours like. Project kick off meeting scheduled?any stage gates in place? Q1 2020, yeah? Link to comment
Bluto10 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Got one and planning another. Kids are ace. They drive you nuts at times but no better feeling than when they come up to you randomly, hug you and say "love you daddy".Wouldn't change it for anything. Pain in the ass playing hide and seek for 2 hours like. Project kick off meeting scheduled?any stage gates in place? Q1 2020, yeah? Link to comment
Site Sponsor Dom Sullivan Posted May 24, 2019 Site Sponsor Share Posted May 24, 2019 Being serious for a minute and in answer to Poodler, there’s nothing like the feeling when your kids are born. Perhaps not for everyone but yes, I’m my view, best thing to happen. Of course, life doesn’t always deal you a fair hand so you have to be prepared to take the rough with the smooth and no one says having kids will be easy. Sometimes the hand you are dealt will affect the rest of your life and sacrifices have to be made but you aren’t given any guarantees in life and have to make the best of things. Personally, wouldn’t have wanted not to have kids. Link to comment
Bad_Mobby Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Bring serious for a minute and in answer to Poodler, there’s nothing like the feeling when your kids are born. For the bloody head wetting Link to comment
Zeus Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 Ive said before though.The birth is shit. No place for a man.Agreed. Come in when it’s done, cut the cord, leave Link to comment
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